Menopause - Hot Flashes

How I'm dealing with hot flashes

Basically, one at a time. But you probably want more useful information than that.

I've decided NOT to take Hormone Replacement Therapy. I do not want to have to take HRT (or anything else) for the rest of my life, nor for a short while [which might merely delay onset of symptoms]. I prefer to allow my body to stabilize itself naturally, without supplemental hormones.

I've gotten through most of the hot flashes now and they bother me only occasionally, but the sudden palpitations [pounding heart] of the adrenaline surge happen when I'm startled or wakened suddenly.

I usually didn't have hot flashes during the morning. Some days they would start as early as 4:00 in the afternoon, and occur as frequently as every 50 minutes, but mostly I had three or four in the evenings, beginning around 8:00.

Bathing my face and neck and arms with a cold wet washcloth was very helpful. It didn't make a hot flash quit, but it gave me some relief during one.

Breathing slowly and deeply during a hot flash often helps.

The best thing I've done for myself is to gain weight. That's right, GAIN weight! Skinny white women (that's me) have more problems with body temperature regulation. Estrogens are produced NATURALLY in body fat. Extra fat adds insulation from the cold and you might think it would hold in heat and make the hot flashes worse, but over time the added estrogen production helps stabilize the body's thermostat.

My normal, comfortable weight has held steady at about 120-125 pounds for twenty-five years (except for the two pregnancies) and I'm just under 5 feet 5 inches. I increased my weight to about 135, give or take 3 pounds. I still had hot flashes about as often, but they were not as unexpectedly sudden and I didn't sweat as much as before. I would still wake up with night sweats, but not as thoroughly, so I could usually get back to sleep in just a few minutes.

Of course, it's possible that my system was already balancing and the worst of my hot flashes were over, anyway.

Sometimes I also take plain Valerian during the day, especially when "my nerves feel on edge" or when I'm having sharp startle-reflexes upon being touched (like by a cat's paw).

Amy - amy@webcatt.com

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